"The last of a dying breed"
I've noticed something recently that just kind of got me thinking... Ellis and I had discussed this a while back but I never really paid much attention to it until recently. Has anyone else realized the difference between what a "date" used to be and what it is now? Ok, in my opinion a date is a way of taking a girl out to find out if you and the girl have that connection or not... it typically includes going to a movie, out to eat, going bowling, playing pool, a trip to the mall, or something like that. Pay her way, hold the door for her, pick her up, drop her off... I mean… A kiss goodnight is like, the MOST action you are supposed to see on the very first date... at least that was the standard back in the day... recently I’ve heard and seen my friends and friends of my friends take a girl "out" which consisted of getting you and her trashed, having sex, and then taking her home in the middle of the night, or better yet, keeping her out all night long. maybe I am just too old school when it comes to this sort of thing but happen to pride myself on being an old school romantic... I believe that the first part of a relationship is building a friendship and a trust between that person... before and I mean WAY before anything else happens. I believe that people put way too much emphasis on sex during a relationship. If anyone disagrees or agrees with me... feel free to leave your thoughts on this subject below.
Peace out, Brandon
I've noticed something recently that just kind of got me thinking... Ellis and I had discussed this a while back but I never really paid much attention to it until recently. Has anyone else realized the difference between what a "date" used to be and what it is now? Ok, in my opinion a date is a way of taking a girl out to find out if you and the girl have that connection or not... it typically includes going to a movie, out to eat, going bowling, playing pool, a trip to the mall, or something like that. Pay her way, hold the door for her, pick her up, drop her off... I mean… A kiss goodnight is like, the MOST action you are supposed to see on the very first date... at least that was the standard back in the day... recently I’ve heard and seen my friends and friends of my friends take a girl "out" which consisted of getting you and her trashed, having sex, and then taking her home in the middle of the night, or better yet, keeping her out all night long. maybe I am just too old school when it comes to this sort of thing but happen to pride myself on being an old school romantic... I believe that the first part of a relationship is building a friendship and a trust between that person... before and I mean WAY before anything else happens. I believe that people put way too much emphasis on sex during a relationship. If anyone disagrees or agrees with me... feel free to leave your thoughts on this subject below.
Peace out, Brandon
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